Category Archives: Relationships
In the pool
I hate the awkwardness of dating. Mostly what I dislike are the stupid rules built around this convention. If I get told one more time not to chase a guy/pursue/ask, well I’m just going to ignore that. It doesn’t apply … Continue reading
Examinations
It’s frustrating to me when I think that I brought cold, abusive, contemptible people into my life. That many of the men I had dated weren’t accidents. I was on a mission of self-destructiveness. It was when I broke the … Continue reading
Freed
I got a note in my box from someone I’ve been at odds with for awhile. I was holding onto this resentment & letting it fester. My reasons were just enough. She betrayed me on a deep level, and it … Continue reading
Just frustrated
I’m experiencing one of those plateaus, the kind where you just are stuck in a tar pit and no matter how you struggle, the direction you take leads you right back where you were before. The people at the dog … Continue reading
Demi & Ashton, cougars & cubs
When I first saw these two together, I must admit I swooned. I also felt vindicated, validated, as if women who love younger men everywhere had an icon. I was married when these two got hitched, then divorced. And I … Continue reading
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